Dear Foxx
When I was young and when people actually read newspapers, I would read the Dear Abby column and check out the advice she would give to the anonymous readers who posed deep questions. Reading this helped me in my own life as adult because Dear Abby would say exactly how she felt. She weighed the pros and the cons of each question and it became very easy for her to give advice because she didn't know them personally. (at least that's what she wanted you to believe) Well I'm always getting asked these deep seeded questions and giving my honest opinion on them so why not add a section in my blog where I answer questions anonymously. My first question comes from ..... well never mind where it came from.... here goes.
Dear Foxx,
I recently started dating this guy, with whom I was acquaintance of. He always wanted to date me in the past but he was a hood boy. I told him that I could not date him because that lifestyle doesn't mesh well with mine. He went missing for about a year and recently looked me up on social media and contacted me. We talked and caught up on each others lives and he told me that he left that street life alone and is now working a legitimate job. I saw a whole new side of him and I was rather intrigued. I always found him attractive but his past made me steer clear of him. We have been dating for 3 weeks now and when we do decide to spend time together, he always wants to do things at my place and not publicly. I have never been inside his place because he lives with his parents. At first this was cute but now I feel like he's hiding something. Should I confront him and ask why he's wanting to be so behind- closed- doors about us dating?
From Secret Lover
Dear Secret Lover,
You should have asked that question at the very first sight of it happening. Yea it's always cute when your boo wants to spend time with you at home, but y'all haven't been dating that long, for his ass to turn into Al Bundy. He's most definitely hiding something. He gave you exactly what you wanted, by telling you everything you wanted to hear about him. Girl, they do it all the time. Now he got his ass in your house burning your electricity, eating all your food, and hiding you from meeting a real man who will take you out and show you a nice time. Oh, and that house that you're meeting him at might not even be his parent's home. This further tells me that you're driving over to him and he must not have a car. Girl I'm done. He sold you a dream boo. Blow up his story and move on.
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